Getting to “Good Enough”

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You matter. 

You are worthy.  

You are lovable.  

Exactly the way you are.  

You don’t have to be better, smarter, thinner, faster, stronger, richer, or any different than the person you are right now.   The person you are right now is enough.    

What if we actually, really, truly believed those words about ourselves?  What if we did not allow the opinions of others to impact our self-worth?  What if we did not let our own negative self-talk erode our self-worth?

What do you think you could create in your life from that place?  

Some people argue that if they believe themselves to be enough as they are right now, then they won’t have any desire to change for the better.  They ask me: “If I’ve already ‘arrived’, what more is there to do?” or “What if I become complacent?”?  

I don’t think we ever “arrive”.  There will always be gaps between where we are and where we’d like to be.   There is always opportunity for growth and evolution in our lives.    

This leaves up with 2 options… 

1. Approach the gaps in our lives with the belief that we are (or possibly could be) “good enough” 
2. Approach the gaps in our lives with the belief that we are not “good enough”

Try them both on.  Which feels better?  Which do you think will get you better results?
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